“I’m looking for some assistance determining whether I am the asshole in this situation that has divided our house into two groups.”

“I (20M) am a college student living with four other guys my age. It’s our second year living together, and last year we had an issue with people eating food that isn’t theirs, so now we have a strict “label your stuff and only eat things with your name on it” policy.”

“My girlfriend and I like to get a bit frisky in the bedroom, and a few nights ago I dipped my penis in peanut butter and she licked it off. Yes, I understand that it is slightly bizarre, but that’s how we roll. The controversy is that since we have a mouse problem I did not want to leave the peanut butter in my bedroom, so afterwards I closed it and returned it to my kitchen cupboard. Note that it had a huge “PeanutButterDilemma” label on it, so it was clear that it belonged to me.”

“One of my roommates tells me yesterday “oh by the way, I had some of your peanut butter”. He sees my visibly shocked reaction and asks what’s up, so ultimately I come clean about the whole deal.”

“He’s furious and says “why the fuck would you put it back in the kitchen”. I remind him of the mouse situation and our policy not to have other people’s labelled foods. This is the first time all year that somebody has had my labelled food and informed me after the fact. He said it was just some peanut butter on his bread, it’s not like he was taking full chicken breasts from me.”

“My house is split 3:2 on who is in the wrong, and it’s spilling over into other aspects of our living situation. We need to get over this pronto so I am asking… AITA?” “INFO: We have sort of divvied up cupboards, so it was kept in “my” space. It wasn’t in a communal cupboard.”

Is he an asshole? What do you think?